Hello my beautiful sisters,
Here’s a question many of you First Ladies asked me to address. First ladies, take heart! It’s okay to be you, even when it’s not okay with others. I pray for your well-being and peace. One thing I’ve learned is that this role is not just a title, but a journey of growth. Its grace. Just because it looks easy doesn’t mean it’s not heavy. 
And you will be judged. Yes, people will talk, and it can be hurtful when they don’t take the time to truly know you. But here’s what I’ve learned: keep being your authentic self. Pray!!!! Don’t let the negativity define you. We’re not perfect, but we can strive to please God and not people. Be encouraged! One valuable lesson I’ve learned the hard way is to STOP allowing others to repeat negative comments about you that can affect your spirit.
I prayed and asked God, Lord, don’t let me be interested in the noise. Take away the curiosity and distractions in Jesus name. Its Very important to work on your insecurities and heal. I realized over 24 years now the judgment comes from non-factors and sometimes those you least expect. God has a village of women that are for you and you have to know your value and your worth. I’m grateful for my village. I pray this encourages you.  I get it no matter how spiritual you are, Some things hurts, but I promise you, Jesus is the best defense mechanism you’ll ever have. #ISeeYou. 
Much love 🙏🏽💋
